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I am a mother of 3 beautiful children. My girls are aged 9 & 5. My son Jaise would now be 3, however he will always be my baby boy because on 27.09.2010 he found his way into a NON comoliant backyard pool on a rental property in NSW while we were on holidays. He was air lifted to John Hunter Hospital, Newcastle and was put on life support. He has numerous tests including Xrays, MRI, CT scans and brain surgery over the next 2 days. Sadly he lost his battle and became a water angel at 10.30am September 29th 2010 aged 25 months.

23 September 2012

Changes on the Horizon....

Its been a while since I have posted anything on here.... why?
I have been trying to get my children and myself back to some sort of normal life.
I have focused purely on my immediately family & friends to help get us in a better place.
While we have been on thus journey though I have been advocating with Kat and Andrew Plint from Hannah's Foundation to have Jaises Law passed in NSW.

Today this was shared on Jaise's Law on Facebook... http://www.facebook.com/#!/JaisesLaw



NSW Parliament speech by Tanya Davies MP:

Mrs TANYA DAVIES (Mulgoa) [1.05 p.m.]: I congratulate the Minister for Local Government, Mr Donald Page, and the O'Farrell Government on their action to protect toddlers from harm in backyard pools by introducing new legislation to ensure backyard pools comply with regulations. There are approximately 340,000 backyard swimming pools within New South Wale...
s. Whilst swimming pools offer exercise and enjoyment, they also can be a silent killer if young children are not constantly supervised and pool fencing is non-compliant. It is unacceptable that New South Wales is over-represented in statistics on national backyard swimming pool drownings. On average six children drown in private swimming pools in New South Wales each year. This figure has remained constant over the past 15 years. Last week the Minister for Local Government announced a plan to introduce this legislation, stating:

… children's safety is paramount and very young children are most at risk. Every child drowning is a tragedy to families and communities, not least because it is preventable through ensuring responsible supervision and complaint barriers.

Such tragedy was brought to my attention by Kelly Taylor, a resident of Queensland. Whilst on a holiday to visit her family in New South Wales, Kelly rented a holiday home where her two-year-old son Jaise lost his life after drowning in a pool that had a non-compliant pool fence. Kelly shared her personal and painful story in the hope that governments would change legislation to ensure Jaise's death was not in vain. She said:

Jaise drowned in NSW at a rental property in which relatives were able to rent. Little did they or myself know that the pool in their yard was a killer which robbed me of my son and our family …

That day lives with my every breath, every day of my life and has further traumatised my daughters …

I speak for the safety of children, the safety of the community and most of all my campaign as personal and raw as it has been is now a partial reality that Jaise's story has been heard. His death will not be in vain and I ask the NSW Parliament to make a mention of Jaise's Law in regards to pool safety and rental properties compulsory certification and public pool register in his memory and I will continue with this to save more children's lives.

Together the Parliament, the community and tragic stories such as my son's death can help save others the pain and anguish that I now have to suffer every day because I visited your state on holidays and went to a house with a non compliant rental pool property. Jaise should still be here if people, builders and councils would have upheld the laws in which they were bound by.

I just wish everyday that my son Jaise was still here with me, these laws when passed will show that my son's death wasn't in vain and I hope and know that future lives will be saved.

Kindest Regards,
Kelly Taylor—Jaise's Mummy

Andrew and Katherine Plint, the founders of Hannah's Foundation, began a national day of drowning prevention awareness and support after the drowning death of their daughter Hannah on 4 October 2007. That day is dedicated to remembering loved ones lost to drowning and as a day of awareness to prevent such needless loss of life. The incidence of drownings is preventable with full-time supervision and compliant barriers. The proposed legislation is not and will not replace the absolute necessity for constant supervision of babies, toddlers and young children around pools or bodies of water, including melted ice in eskies after a party or the water in nappy buckets.

I urge all caregivers to ensure constant supervision of children at all times—not just in the spring and summer seasons when swimming tends to be more popular but all year round. I also urge pool owners to embrace this legislation and ensure their pool infrastructure is compliant. Having met Kelly Taylor and having worked with her and the Minister for Local Government over the past 12 months to strengthen the pool fence compliance legislation, I consider today a great day because we are changing the legislation to ensure, as much as governments can, that our children are safe and protected. Legislated measures cannot take the place of a caregiver's constant supervision. When using the word "supervise" I like to refer to the phrase "use your super eyes" to remind people to watch toddlers and young children. I thank the Minister for Local Government and the Government for introducing the proposed legislation and I commend the bill to the House.

28 December 2011

2012 - The year of CHANGES

We will see the new year in with my eldest daughters 10th birthday, yes she was a NYE baby!
While she is so excitied about turning 10, I have to put my 'mask' on for her sake and enjoy the day with her.
Don't get me wrong, I want to & I will enjoy the day with her and my other daughter, but it just feels so wrong doing all these things without Jaise.
He loved cake, he loved to play outside, he loved baloons and he would have LOVED to celebrate his big Sissy's 10th birthday with her!

So today I am putting some goals into place for 2012.
I am starting my letter today.
Most of you have no idea what I am talking about, but one lady who has been my rock and strength since Jaise had his accident, knows how important this particular letter is to me, my daughters, Jaise and the rest of the country.
You will all read the letter, eventually, and I know most of you will support me!

My letter will take me a while, as I am hand writing it, something no one does anymore and it will be written through many tears but this is my main goal for 2012.

I have decided to rename 2012 - to me it will be the year of CHANGES!!!!
Keep watching!!!

Cherish your life and loved ones

Christmas has come and gone for another year, my second without Jaise and this one was harder than the first without him. I have so many unanswered questions, thoughts of 'what if' 'if only' 'I should've and so on. I struggle to move on with my everyday task because I keep asking 'WHY?' WHY is my little boy in a cemetry, not here with me. I know he is not hurting anymore and has escaped the cruelty of this world but I want him here with me. I miss him, I want to see him play with his sisters again, I want to trip on his cars he leaves laying around, I want to change his nappies and look after him. To all those out there that waste their time worrying about petty issues, disputes or problems.... Stop! Life is short and once a life is gone, that's it, it's over. There is no 'reset' or 'rewind'. Before you go to bed at night think hard about your life, is it really that bad? Should you really have lashed out at that person? Did you call that person that's been on your mind just to say 'hi'? Never leave the house angry at your loved ones, kiss your children goodnight and TELL them you love them, even if they are asleep... Cause there may not be a next time.

06 December 2011

Dont put this letter on YOUR wishlist for Christmas!!!

Instead of getiing Christmas cards in the mail this Christmas, have a look at what I got today!!
Dont put this letter on YOUR wishlist for Christmas!!!

05 December 2011

Pictures of my Jaisey Bear

Some of my favourite
Pictures of Jaisey Bear xxx




My RANT for the day

You buy a new car - it MUST have an owners/operating manual in the glovebox & it MUST be registered!!
WHY??
Because you will be using something that has the POTENTIAL to injure or kill others if not used CORRECTLY and authorities need to know who owns/drives the vehicle.
So WHY can you go to department stores or online shops and purchase portable/inflatable pools for sometimes less than $100 and ...are NOT required to fill in a registration form at the point of purchase or given the correct brochures/booklets that will help you use it correctly??

I am passionate about these issues, if what I say upsets ANYONE it is not meant to. I say and do what I do because I care and I do NOT want any other parent to feel the pain my family and I do every second of EVERYDAY!!!

Portable pool or a coffin for Christmas ???

Media release: Portable pool or a coffin for Christmas?

by Hannah's Foundation on Friday, December 2, 2011 at 10:14am

Portable pool or a coffin for Christmas



Hannah’s Foundation Drowning Prevention, Awareness and Support charity is issuing warnings about water safety after drowning hospitalisations and fatalities and says more parents will be burying a child this Christmas if the warnings aren’t heard.



Another drowning in back yard pool sparks more warnings, the child has been rushed to hospital, the child is currently stable. A fatal toddler drowning two weeks ago in Morpeth in an unfenced backyard pool that had been purchased only two days before Little Darcy’s death. The message is strong, ALWAYS SUPERVISE SWIMMERS and CHILDREN around water. Empty the pools but always fence your pool.



“Today’s latest news of a child drowning highlights the life threatening dangers of leaving portable pools unfenced and unattended” Katherine Plint said.



“It’s really important that no matter what swimming skills you have, you can drown in an instant and water is just so unpredictable, toddlers need to be supervised with constant ‘eyes on’ always” she said.



“We urge people that if they do buy portable pools that necessary safety precautions are being taken, always Supervise the child in the water, make sure the pool is emptied and never turn your back on a child in water not even for a second”



“Last year was horrible for drownings and accidents like this are a constant reminder and this is no exception. This year we are needing the media to help with stepping up the messages so that people listen to them, because drowning does not discriminate she said.



“Water safety and drowning prevention messages need to be ‘in your face’ so that people are constantly reminded of the imminent dangers” she said.



“In the past month Hannah’s Foundation has been able to provide support to seven families and whilst funding is very low we urge people to help support the only charity in Australia supporting families affected by drowning fatalities and injuries because our peak season is now upon us. This week alone two families need support burying their children.” she said.



“This week and the weeks ahead are just the warning signs for what is install this summer and people need to be aware of the dangers of portable pools.”



“New pool fencing laws come into effect on December 1st in Qld yet sadly in NSW and VIC those changes were not as extensive. More drownings will happen if something isn’t done.”



Kelly Taylor, mother of Jaise who drowned in a rental property last September is calling for Jaise’s Law for NSW.



Kelly Taylor said “This drowning and others like it break my heart. I can’t sit and do nothing I have to educate people on drownings and that it can take your child's life. Pools are dangerous and they must be fenced to the Australian Standards.”



She said “the pool that Jaise drowned in wasn’t safe, it had multiple breaches and was a rental property I was visiting whilst on holidays. It all happened in a matter of seconds when Jaise was being pulled from the pool”



“Jaise’s Law is being advocated to include a State Wide pool register, Adoption of the full Australian Standards and the Qld laws that abolished over 11 pieces of legislation rolling Swimming pool laws it into ONE LAW”. She said.



Mrs Taylor said “I never want another person to suffer the pain my family goes through, our thoughts are with this family today but we need the media to help us get messages constantly out there”



Andrew Plint, Founding Director said “Retailers need to be urged to take a social responsibility and not provide pathetic warnings on boxes of portable pools. They know that items can’t be sold without a fence, yet they don't take an active role in educating the consumer.”



“I would be encouraging not to buy blow up pools over Christmas because that $100 pool requires a pool fence, a council application and certification. All portable pools especially those with filtration systems, over 30cm deep and hold over 2000 litres of water must be fenced, have a council building permit and Certification by council.” He said.



“That $100 gift may cost a child their young life” Mr Plint said



“Perhaps the Federal Government should adopt similar warnings to cigarettes packets and start putting photos of those who have died or suffered an injury in an unfenced pool on these death traps”

http://www.facebook.com/notes/hannahs-foundation/media-release-portable-pool-or-a-coffin-for-christmas/10150989978560015